Three years ago around New Years, I was sitting in a church class and we were talking about goals for the coming year. We were asked to write down one goal we had for the coming year. Immediately the thought came to mind, have a natural childbirth. I was about seven months pregnant, so the topic of childbirth was at the forefront of my mind. It was my second baby. Natural childbirth had never crossed my mind. I am a fan of pain management. I support and admire those who want an unmedicated birth, but that was not me. Needless to say, I was very surprised when this thought came to mind. For a week or so I was really psyched about possibly meeting this goal. Then I lost interest and decided I didn’t truly want it so I was not going to guilt myself into it and feel bad if I failed. Fast forward three months to when my son was born, the time from the first true contraction to his birth was about three hours. I was pushing him out as the anesthesiologist walked in the room. It’s possible I should have listened to that intuition I had three months earlier, because I was in no way prepared for an unmedicated birth. I guess the point of that story is to trust your intuition when coming up with goals, even if they are totally unexpected to you!
Like many people, at the New Year, I like to set goals and make plans to improve over the coming year. Sometimes they are general ones that I seem to make every year (eat healthier, exercise more, etc) and some years I have broken my goals down into categories (physical, spiritual, mental, financial, etc). I’m still working out the best way to set goals without feeling overwhelmed and then let down when I struggle to keep up with all of them. I feel like I am consistently wanting to improve in certain areas of my life, so I don’t necessarily want to make them my “resolutions”for the year.
This year I decided to take a little bit of a different approach. Instead, I made a 2017 “Bucket List.” I came up a list of twelve things I would like to do this year. I chose twelve because there are twelve months in the year, but I won’t necessarily just do one a month and there is no specific order. I’m sharing some of my list here today, partly for accountability and partly for fun if you need some inspiration to approach the New Year in a unique way! I’m only sharing some of my list, because there are a few things on my list that are a little more personal that I may share once I do them, but for now they are just for me.
Here’s a glimpse into my Bucket List for 2017:
Learn three new hairstyle for myself. I am pretty much the most low maintenance person when it comes to hair. I wear it two-ish ways: straight (sometimes I curl it for special occasions) and in a ponytail/bun. That’s about it. I really would like some options when it comes to doing my hair. I like to keep it out of my face a lot of the time, especially when chasing after three little ones, but I also like looking put together. So this year, I’d like to learn a few ways to do that outside of my one or two basic styles.
Run a half-marathon. I have run three half marathons. It has been almost two and half years since my last one, so it’s about time for another. I don’t claim to be an awesome runner. My times have never been fabulous. In fact, the last half marathon I did was a small race, and I am pretty sure I finished second to last. But I finished and I ran the whole time. This time my goal is to beat my fastest time, which was…not so fast. So I have a pretty good chance of meeting that goal! I got new shoes for Christmas, so I can finally retire my running shoes that I have had for almost five years now. They were so worn, it basically felt like I was working out barefoot. There has been a night and day difference with my new shoes and I love it.
Go on three family road trips/day trips. I would really love to take a few family road trips this year. They don’t even have to be overnight trips. I would just like to find some unique places to visit with my little family. We have so much fun when we go out on adventures together. For the past year, or years really, it seems that once Saturday comes we are so spent from the week that we just want to chill out around home and our local visits, which is great. But there is something about getting out and adventuring with your family!
Try a cycling class. I regularly attend classes at the gym and have a pretty set schedule of the ones I attend. However, there is one type of class I have never tried and that is cycling. To be honest, I have always been intimidated by it, but I have been intimidated by almost every class I have tried at the gym and have always come out loving it. Between my normal gym classes and starting up training for a half marathon, I am not sure when I’ll squeeze it in but I want to try at least one this year!
Host at least one party at my house. We have had parties at our house in past years, but they are mostly for our kids and really simple gatherings. I’d like to host a really fun party, with decorations, food, etc. I love the idea of planning parties, but have had other priorities in the past. I’m really hoping to carry out at least one awesome party this year!
Read 2 books each month. Every time I pick up a really good book, I’m reminded that I love reading. But my problem is, when I get into a book, sometimes I literally do nothing until I finish it. That is a struggle. I’m trying to find a balance there. In the last few months, I’ve read a few really great books and I have a few on my nightstand right now. Two of them are parenting books and I’m excited to read those. I took a little break from parenting books for awhile because I was getting a little information overload, but I think I am open to that genre again now, after some time away.
These are “goals” I am genuinely looking forward to doing! Thanks for indulging me this week with all these New Year posts! 2017 is looking very promising!